Donnie Vincent Wheeler

It is with heavy hearts that we share the passing of Donnie Vincent Wheeler, who left us on April 6, 2025, at the age of 39. Born in French Camp, California, Donnie brought laughter, connection, and music into the lives of everyone lucky enough to know him.

Donnie was a true connector—someone who made friends wherever he went, across every walk of life, and across the globe. He had a unique gift for staying in touch, always reaching out with a message, a new song, or a perfectly timed joke to brighten someone’s day.

A passionate music lover, Donnie was constantly on the hunt for new sounds and loved playing DJ for his friends. He found joy in sharing playlists, sending tracks that made him think of others, and making music a thread that connected him to the people he loved.

He was an avid gamer who built friendships across continents, finding real and lasting community in online spaces. But where Donnie truly lit up was at music festivals and concerts—he felt like himself in those spaces. The energy, the sound, the people—those were sacred to him. Dancing with friends under open skies, discovering new artists, singing loud to old favorites—those moments were his joy. He also found adventure in snowboarding, camping, and riding his one wheel, always seeking new experiences and ways to enjoy the moment, but music was his heartbeat.

Donnie was silly, sweet, and unafraid to be goofy. He made people laugh—really laugh—and made even the quietest people feel welcome. His absence leaves an ache, but also a warmth, because of how deeply he loved and how fully he lived.

He is survived by his mother, Kim Wheeler and step-father Roger Findley, and a wide, beloved community of friends and chosen family who will miss him deeply.

As his mom, Kim, so beautifully says:

“My Son,

You left me with beautiful memories. Memories that will last a lifetime. I’ll hold them in my heart.

Love, Mom”

A celebration of life will be held at a later date. In the meantime, those who wish to honor Donnie can do so by reaching out to someone they love, sharing a favorite song, giving a big hug, or simply making time to connect. That’s how Donnie lived—with heart, humor, and intention.

He will be missed beyond words and remembered with so much love.